I was born and raised in a family that valued sexual exploration and accepted and even celebrated sexual deviance. My grandmother was known as “The Black Hole of Bialystok” and serviced Cossacks, Black Russians, White Russians, even the Wehrmacht — anyone and everyone, as long as they could pay. In 1950s Atlanta, my mother offered husbands “Stress Release Sessions” in the alley behind the drugstore, while my father gave abortions